Relationship Or Situationship l Love Or Lust

Contributed By: Anshika Pandey (Student Mass Comm Contributor)
Intro-paragraph by Amit kumaR Agarwal
 
Singham Again, other than moving the story of cop-universe, also had elements that concerns today's youth. One element is 'situationship' - where just like the father and the mother, I as an audience, wondered too - is relationship passe - is it all about situationship today.


Basically, I already wrote an article about love that it’s a beautiful feeling that one can have if they have pure intentions for anyone they choose to be with. It’s very rare and difficult to choose one; however, in this modern society, people often fall for the wrong one because people are always in a hurry to get into a relationship for the sake of lust. It becomes normal these days.
 
Lust is a sexual attraction towards someone. I get that everyone has their own preferences, point of view, choices, etc., though for some people it is difficult to accept.
 
Why?
 
If one has genuine feelings for someone, the other will ignore it just for their selfish desires, and sometimes people will confuse their partner that I am not ready for the tag, etc., and taking advantage of that, they put pressure on them and say if you want to stay, then you can, or else it’s your choice.

There are multiple cases where people are just always in a dilemma: am I in love or is it just a fling or attraction? which sometimes costs them.
 
If both partners know their intentions in the very beginning and if both are clear with each other knowing the consequences, then it will be their own decision or so on, but this will go wrong with a person who doesn’t know how to control their feelings and chooses to go with the flow, and the outcome will always be the worst.

So in the end, whatever you choose, think not just twice or thrice - but till the time you are super-convinced about the aspect - is it love or plain lust!